Letting go is so hard yet necessary

When we love someone, we are emotionally attached. Attachment isn't a choice but a process that happens naturally.

When relationships change, when the other part changes, the heart finds it hard to accept the changes and usually finds an excuse to explain the situation.

Love can make one to be blinded so much that they fail to make informed decisions about life and relationships. When things change, and take a direction we don't want, there is nothing we can do except to accept and MOVE. When the energy seizes to be mutual, do what serves you. Not everyone has the courage to say when they want out hence it is good to notice this and make a decision.

Hurting is normal, it shows you are human enough. It doesnt make one weak. Hurt, cry but don't stay hurting. Acceptance is part of the healing process, it means you have made peace with the situation. After this you learn to live without what has gone. Don't lose yourself trying to force things that are not meant to be. It will drain you and instead of focusing on better things you will stay hurting.

Closure is not something we always get. Don't go looking for it if you didn't get in the first place. It could be for your own good.

Pick yourself up. Look in the mirror. Remember you were great even before meeting this person, that means you are still great. Dont let pain define you. Define the moment, live your life to the fullest.

People who are meant to stay will stay, those meant to go should go. Don't try keeping a person who is not meant to be kept. It will block the door for those that should come it. Let things be.

I have no idea what you are going through or what you've been through. What i know is that pain isn't permanent. The sooner you accept things as they are the sooner you will heal and be able to move on.

Live yourself. Be happy. Be with those that want to be with you. Time is a scarcere source, use it wisely.

It's a great weekend!!